
“Workplace intimidation isn’t just a toxic culture — it’s a weapon. And when it ends in death, the boardroom becomes a crime scene. Or does it become the place of cover-up?”
This isn’t about corporate America. This is about our boardrooms — the association board members, the state and national court reporting organizations, the regional leaders, and the official management in superior, district, and federal courts.
These are the spaces that shape the profession. They set the tone. They decide what is prioritized — and what is quietly ignored. And too often, they look the other way when the culture becomes dangerous.
Let’s say it plainly: a culture of fear and silence within our own institutions has ended lives. First it destroys someone’s spirit — then, tragically, their body may follow. When that happens, it’s not just a tragedy. It’s a failure of leadership.
Not Neutral. Complicit.
Workplace abuse — whether through bullying, intimidation, exclusion, or retaliation — is not a personality conflict. It is systemic harm. And when those in power stay silent, when whistleblowers are ostracized, and when grievances are ignored or dismissed as “drama,” the system is no longer flawed — it’s complicit.
In the court reporting profession, this shows up in chilling ways:
- Board members retaliating against dissent.
- Leadership gatekeeping opportunities for those who question the status quo.
- Court offices punishing vulnerability or honesty with isolation.
- Associations minimizing mental health crises or workplace stressors until it’s too late.
These patterns don’t happen by accident. They persist because the people with power let them.
“Who Is This?” – When Silence Isn’t Enough, Discredit Comes Next
As I’ve raised these concerns publicly, I’ve received a recurring type of response. Not thoughtful disagreement. Not evidence-based debate. But vague, passive-aggressive comments like:
“Who is this?”
“Who created this page?”
These aren’t sincere questions. They’re tone-policing. They’re gatekeeping. They’re attempts to discredit the person so they don’t have to address the message.
It’s a tactic we see often when someone dares to speak out — especially someone without a formal title or protected position. The implication is that only people with status are allowed to raise uncomfortable truths. But let me be clear:
You do not need a title to tell the truth.
You do not need a badge to bear witness.
And you certainly don’t need permission to speak about harm.
These kinds of comments don’t just derail important conversations — they reinforce the very power dynamics that have allowed workplace abuse to thrive unchecked. And they prove the point: when you challenge silence, intimidation will often try to take its place.
The Real Responsibility of Leadership
Every board member, every court reporting association leader, every official in a management role — you hold lives in your hands. Your job is not just to maintain procedure or protect tradition. Your duty is to protect people.
That includes:
- Funding initiatives for mental health, harassment prevention, and psychosocial safety.
- Ensuring grievance systems are safe, anonymous, and taken seriously.
- Demanding transparency about toxic behavior — even when it comes from within the board.
- Recognizing that power dynamics are not neutral — they favor the abuser when silence reigns.
Culture starts at the top. And if fear is growing in the profession, look upward. Look at who benefits when people are afraid to speak.
Human Cost, Not Just Professional Risk
Let us remember the human toll: the colleague who stopped showing up. The professional who took their own life. The person who was mocked after speaking out about mistreatment. These are not abstractions. They are real people — and their pain was real.
To make fun of the person who died from workplace abuse is not just cruel — it’s a second violence. To dehumanize them is to absolve the system that harmed them.
Empathy — not policy — is the first step to change. Because we don’t leave jobs. We leave people. And in this field, far too many are leaving in silence, in shame, and sometimes, for good.
Time to Reckon
It’s time for association boards and court leadership to stop hiding behind bureaucracy. This profession deserves better. It needs better.
Accountability is not just a buzzword. It’s a shift in power. It means:
- Listening to survivors.
- Investigating misconduct — even when it’s uncomfortable.
- Naming the harm — not erasing it.
- Choosing justice over reputation.
This profession was built on precision, ethics, and truth. We can’t afford to abandon those values inside our own institutions.
When abuse happens in our ranks, the boardroom doesn’t get to claim innocence. It must face the mirror. Because the next time harm is ignored, the legacy won’t be one of leadership — it will be one of complicity.
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This advice in this post is truly very profound.
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